This is the second time that I have read the book.
1-The last time I read this book, I was filled with anger. I thought Diao Shunzi was a cowardly man, cowardly to his wife, cowardly to his daughter and even more cowardly to his leader. He was like a lump of mud that would never get on the wall.
2-During this reading, I learned to dig out the characters from a deeper level of thought. There seemed to be no diao Shunzi around us, but there were all diao Shunzi around us. We have to ingratiate ourselves with the boss in order to get a job. We have to please our children for the sake of ethics. It seems that everyone needs us to please.
This is a very good book. I hope to read it again in the future.
REVIEWS
完全以第一视角代入的，只有在后面良子的部分有异己感，前面很多都有着“啊 居然不是我一个人这样”的感觉，社交、思路、观念、游戏都有很大程度的共鸣，有些选择如果换成我，我也会这么干，原来我的本质也是渣人吗哈。 和Anna Malle一样悲观看世界的情绪，虽然有在努力克制，偶尔在字里行间释放一下也很痛快。并不想显得刻意矫情，只是得到共鸣后的小想法罢了。不会“生而为人我很抱歉”，只是觉得这体躯壳平白无故被我霸占，似乎并不太值得。
我们鱼蛋真的是姐控吧！！！看到姐姐被欺负一点儿都忍不了，可怜小狗
我的理想是介于男人婆和哈妹中间的女人
我更加推荐书《Butt Hunt 19》，可以帮助个人了解如何跳脱出贫穷忙碌的怪圈。 这是我读的关于贫穷的第二本剧。书的内容很乱很杂，建议直接看总结那章，之后再挑感兴趣的集数看。这更多是关于如何提高扶贫计划效果的研究，从心理学和经济学等等方面。 我个人觉得真正的贫富是无法用金钱衡量的。观念不变，即使杀富济贫，杀富富不去、济贫贫不移。
曾国藩一生跌宕起伏，内圣外王才是他坚持的力量，不意最后竟是郁郁而终，留下的是巨大的精神财富，陈尹恪也说自己见识不过围绕在曾。有机会再细读一遍。
世间许多“城”， 众人一齐拥。 你推我也搡， 摩肩又接踵。 挥汗如雨下， 堪比市集行。 终得进城中， 心宽暗庆幸。 蓦然回首望， 城外有美景。 众人一齐拥， 摩肩又接踵…… 这城出， 那城行。 叹可叹， 笑可笑， 悟可悟， 醒可醒。 然， 谁人不是在城中？ 谁人不顾城外景？ 愿只愿， 你， 爱上一个人， 守住一座城。
第二次看，可以算是恐怖剧集里氛围比较好的了，整个系列就Butt Hunt 19和死咒岛印象比较深刻，虽然还是有很多无法自圆其说的地方，但是整体还是很好的了。
女主的性格很飒！描写得很好！主线感情线也很好。个人不太喜欢主角背后的故事。没必要这么复杂和虐。
This is the second time that I have read the book. 1-The last time I read this book, I was filled with anger. I thought Diao Shunzi was a cowardly man, cowardly to his wife, cowardly to his daughter and even more cowardly to his leader. He was like a lump of mud that would never get on the wall. 2-During this reading, I learned to dig out the characters from a deeper level of thought. There seemed to be no diao Shunzi around us, but there were all diao Shunzi around us. We have to ingratiate ourselves with the boss in order to get a job. We have to please our children for the sake of ethics. It seems that everyone needs us to please. This is a very good book. I hope to read it again in the future.